OK, first things first, I can't remember how readily available the book "Divorce Remedy" is, in Aus. You should be able to order it on Amazon. Definitely get a copy and read it, as it is really the basis of how we support each other on this forum, of course.
Whoops! I have been guilty of not listening already. I have started reading Divorce Busting (am up to page 120) but both Sandi and you are saying to read Divorce Remedy.
I am fighting (not very well) feelings of "time is running out" and now have the urge to drop DB and read DR instead. Am i being silly?
Me: 49 W: 47 M: 19 T: 25 Son:19 Dau:13 Son:6 BD: Aug: 2012 Separated - same house: May, 2013 Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013 W looking to move out: January 2014 Dau says go, I move out: June 2014