Its been over a month...but I have been chewing ALOT of nicotine gum. W says she doesnt believe it...not that I am telling or pushing her...it came up on the last R conversation when she came home from her trip. And she says, even if it is true, its too little too late.

But...I cant change how she feels, only how I feel. Right?

I have the gift of time as I have read on these boards over and over.

Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013