Thanks PM - good advice. There is one other couple my wife confided in about this on the team. I wish that persons husband was going as I could use the support. They are good people and are not on board about this but remaun friends.
M: 43 W: 43 Married: 17 Together: 20 BD: 4/8/13 no legal or physical S as of yet 3 kids: S:14 D:13 D:9 W admitted EA: 5/5/13 Mediation started: 6/3/13 W says EA is done: 6/30/13 - still interested in D