Why would that bother you? Do you want her to be sad and miserable? Does it not make you happy to see her happy? Because it should, whether that's with you or without you in her life.
I guess it bothers me because it's a reminder to me that she's over me and emotionally detached. It makes it seem like she's not having a hard time with our situation.
Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
If her being happy bothers you, then that is a giant red flag that you are nowhere close to being detached.
I fully agree. I realize that it's going to take me months to detach to the point where I need to be.
Me:38, Wife:36 M:8 T:13 No kids Bomb:3/10/13 W moved out:3/30/13 Started D paperwork: 10/14/13 D final: 12/30/13 To a future of love and happiness...
