What do you think you would do if he is there and your W and OM keep looking at each other? What if you see her looking at her phone? You know you'll wonder if it's him. What if both of them are missing out of their seats...at the same time?
sandi2 is absolutely right about the delicacy of the situation, but you must absolutely stand your ground as a man, a husband, and a parent. If any suspicious behavior begins occurring, you have two options:
1) ignore it, because it doesn't bother you and you can't control it. 2) stare him down relentlessly.
Neither option requires confrontation, but messages can most certainly be sent. I may not be the best man to model behavior after, but I would (and did) choose option 2 on several occasions. OM should feel intimidated and inadequate because of his moral failings and his disrespect to you and your family. HE should be inconvenienced and worried, not YOU.
DON'T BACK DOWN. But that's just my humble opinion.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
