Tallula and Sandi - its an EA as ive been told. She is adamant about that but I can only trust that.

She has to be there this weekend as she coordinates. Im in no position to tell her to step down at this point.

Yes it will be miserable no doubt. Still have hope that he decides not to go. I have thought about this and as an adult who doesnt want to push my W any further - Ill be able to handle it but I really dont want what you mentioned above.

M: 43
W: 43
Married: 17 Together: 20
BD: 4/8/13 no legal or physical S as of yet
3 kids: S:14 D:13 D:9
W admitted EA: 5/5/13
Mediation started: 6/3/13
W says EA is done: 6/30/13 - still interested in D