Just wanted to pop in and let you all know how its going. Things are the same. Still room mates, still separated. She has had some casual chit chat, but unless I am asked a direct question I just listen. If I do talk, I usually just bring up something our S or dogs did in a light hearted way and leave it at that.

She comes and goes, and I dont get up anymore to follow her, I just let her come in and do her thing. It kinda bothers me she is still sitting in her bedroom watching tv instead of being in the living room with me, but I can not control it...and its her choice.

GAL'in my face off this week with scuba classes and work. I do feel better, even though it still hurts when I think about it.


Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013