Wife and i had a bit of a talk last week. I told her that i was letting her go. I said she was correct in the fact that this marriage wasn't working.

She said she was relieved to finally hear me say that. I made all the classic mistakes but a big one was trying to reason with her when her mind was already made up.

But hear is the kicker, she keeps bringing up that down the road if she sees true change in me then we can possibly start dating again. this isn't the first time she mentioned this to me.

I am not sure if she is just saying these things so i will be more apt to truly let her go, but it is killing me right now.


Me: 41 W: 36
M:9 yrs
Together: 12 yrs
Kids S7 S4
BD: 01/13
W filed 5/13
D final 8/13