Thought id check in...
Thanks for that link. Read it. Several times. All I can say is I'm NOT there yet...

It's been a week since contact, other than I forward status of my grandpa to her. Is text. We're still on wait list for her C.

So I asked her to coffee tomorrow, we both have day off. It's been 30 minutes, whichever she's at least thinking about it. If she says no ill just say ok maybe another time.

In my thoughts about our convos, I have realized that though I don't switch to R talk, when she does I take the bait and try to use it.

I will take what I think your advice is and steer. Lear of that all together for a while?

Me 46 W 43
S 21 D 18 S 17
M 22 yrs
Discovered OM 9/10/12
W moved to sister's 9/15/12
W moved to OM 9/27/12
Tried to DB until 7/13
W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve.
I counter filed 12/2/13.