I’m currently in LRT and have almost no contact with H. I don’t have FB, neither does he. Some of our common friends have FB. At my last DB coaching session my DB coach suggested to open the FB account for me, so I could post my GAL activities, in hopes that the common friends would pass the information to H. I’m still skeptical. I can see from the comments on this board that when both partners have FB accounts, it could get ugly. You would need a lot of restraint to avoid checking your W’s activities.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state