I got my mediation paperwork in the mail yesterday. I was under the impression H wouldn't be here since he is out of the country but it acts like we both have to be there. I was hoping not to have to see him. I was suprised how sad it made me feel. I am the one that filed, I think he would happily carry on the way it is now. I don't want to be married to him but I don't want to be divorced... I guess I want my old H back. no chance of that happening.
I find it very ironic we have to sit there and work out a parenting agreement when only 1 of us is parenting. He is more like an uncle now. a daily 7 am phone call does not make you a parent....I am annoyed too with Florida. I can't have full custody because FL doesn't agree with that even though he is out of the country we have to have a timesharing plan. When does H have to do the work part of being a parent?? never....
