Listen to sandi, P, she has some wonderful and invaluable advice to offer you!

Do your best to say and do *nothing*. Focus on yourself and try to find something to occupy yourself.

And keep posting. It'll help you get your head on straight and if it looks like your about to make a noob mistake or if you do something dumb like lose your temper we'll try to help you get back on track.

M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13