In order for me to GAL, i felt i needed to move out because the town we lived in was a major source of discontent for me. I moved out there when we were dating because she had a S8 at the time and didn't want to move to the town i was currently living because that meant he would have to change schools/friends.
We always talked about moving to a different city, but she kept putting it off and over time i guess i built up some resentment for that.
Me: 41 W: 36 M:9 yrs Together: 12 yrs Kids S7 S4 BD: 01/13 W filed 5/13 D final 8/13