I really think that we can make it, Girl

[RosaLinda]

Hi Forever Young! I read your post on Portia's thread, and decided to drop by and scan thru all of your threads. It is amazing to see the similarities between your W's journey and my H's, even though they are the opposite gender. Same I love you but...speech (although my H switched to the I never loved not for one second over the past 38 years speech this March), alternating coldness, nastiness and friendliness, sleeping in separate bedrooms, telling me I'm a child not the woman he needs, low self esteem. He is now trying to decide whether to divorce me or not, did your W ever threaten divorce? I don't recall reading that she did. The lack of physical affection is a new slap in the face for me; my H maintained frequent intimate relations with me from Jan 2010 until right after his PA in March. That hurts a lot, doesn't it? I'm a really huggy sort of person, and this complete lack of physical contact is killing me.

It sounds as if you are alternating doing great, and getting exhausted by Standing. I think you ARE doing great, keeping your sense of humor throughout, and I love the song lyrics you post! What did your DB coach have to say on Monday?