But it bothers me sooooo bad that she really seems happy.
Why would that bother you? Do you want her to be sad and miserable? Does it not make you happy to see her happy? Because it should, whether that's with you or without you in her life.
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On the other side I'm desperately trying to detach and not let her affect me.
If her being happy bothers you, then that is a giant red flag that you are nowhere close to being detached.
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It seems our interactions have been the same since she's moved out...not frequent and nice and friendly. No R or future talk. I'm looking for some kind of change though.
Your sitch isn't even 2 months old. Mine is nearly a year old and our interactions are still at the infrequent but nice and friendly stage. You've got to drop your expectations and forget your timeline. You need to dig down and find patience like you've never had before. Be content with the way things are for now.
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Not sure what, maybe just something to tell me that things are getting worse or getting better.
If you strive to change things, then they will NOT get better. They will get WORSE. Pressure never changes things for the better when dealing with a WAS.
