Boundaries are extremely difficult to come by right now from the Mrs. I'm working overseas this week and haven't gotten to connect much with the kids and finally did this morning and she's taking my time talking with the kids to vent about her mom (doesn't matter the topic, but it's her venting to me....you know the guy she wants to divorce????).
I find it hard sometimes and that I think she's cake eating, but then it's a double edged sword because for too long I didn't listen, I wasn't there and now she's reaching out to me to have me lend my ear and I want to demonstrate I can.
I wonder if your wife is offering to get you groceries to then drop off divorce papers? Hate to think this way, but I'm waiting for my wife's attorney's comments this week also.... what a fun week!!!
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17