And So The End Is Near...

[Breakdown]

My decision doesn't have anything to do with the woman I've met. As far as that's concerned I don't even know if any things likely to happen.

While they may not be directly correlated, they are certainly connected. Someone being interested in you is enough at the start.

I took myself away, and really did some soul searching. I came to the decision that whilst I could forgive an affair I couldn't forgive the way she wasn't there when my dad died.

Can't or won't?

I spend too long wrapped up in what my wife was doing rather than really looking deep at myself and my own feelings. The truth is with or without another partner I'm happy. I have a great son, lovely home and good career as well as lots of amazing friends. I feel like me again.

I totally agree with this first piece, and I'm glad you see the second. I just don't think you've seen the 2nd part very long, and to me, I think some clarity comes after sitting in that space for a time.

I am filing for divorce because I truly know I'm done and really don't think I could ever recapture the feelings I had for my wife - too much has been said and done - but I'm ok with that.

There are certainly some parts you should be done with, some things you need to be done with to grow....are you taking the time to see which things that is? Or are you just throwing them all in one big bucket and sending them away?