And So The End Is Near...

[Intact]

My decision doesn't have anything to do with the woman I've met. As far as that's concerned I don't even know if any things likely to happen.

I took myself away, and really did some soul searching. I came to the decision that whilst I could forgive an affair I couldn't forgive the way she wasn't there when my dad died.

I actually think this is the first time since my sitch began that I really am being honest with myself.

I spend too long wrapped up in what my wife was doing rather than really looking deep at myself and my own feelings. The truth is with or without another partner I'm happy. I have a great son, lovely home and good career as well as lots of amazing friends. I feel like me again.

I'm absolutely being honest when I say I want my wife to be happy - to an extent our sons happiness will depend on it.

I am filing for divorce because I truly know I'm done and really don't think I could ever recapture the feelings I had for my wife - too much has been said and done - but I'm ok with that.

Because of divorce busting I know that I could be single for the next ten years and still be happy - because - I can make myself happy.