Limbowife...meet Limbohusband. I am still green, and made many, many, many mistakes when it comes to DBing. The last thing you need to do is blame yourself totally for your sitch. Yes, as the other say, accept your role in the M...but dont let it destroy whatever is left of your self esteem and character.
The things your H is saying, mirror almost exactly the same script we have all heard from our H/W's. Dont even think about talking to them with logic, because they arent thinking that way. All those rosy , loving, and fabulous good times you remember? Yeah...they dont. They are focused soley on the worse aspects of the R right now.
You've been a devoted W and mother...sounds to me like you need to start GAL'ing big time.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013
