Hello BrightFuture-- H just keeps saying the same things over and over. I am not happy and I am done. I have asked why he was not happy and the reply is I am done. Yes I get that but can you tell me why?? I care about you but don' t love you like THAT anymore,waited til the kids were grown up, we were too young and my personal favorite that I was stupid to not see it coming. He has done so may hurtful things that it is so hard to take it all in. I feel like I don't know who he is anymore. I have really been trying to work on my GAL. I have been working in the yard and learning how to do things I have never done before. H has always been the one to do the fix up things around the house and car stuff because I don't think he thought I did it well enough. He is a big perfectionist while I am kind of a seats of your pants kinda girl. So I have learned to use the mower which oddly I enjoy using. Who knew?? And how to check the fluids in my car and fill them up. He kind of checked out from being involved with family things and even just daily responsibilities last fall. Just trying to keep really busy so I don't have to think about how bad my heart hurts. Thanks so much for the welcome and hope things are going okay for you in your situation. Take care.
