Thanks RH. My sitch is not as bad in that W's profile pics are family pics. Interestingly, she actually changed to having a background and a profile family pic the week after the BD. Like it was her way of telling herself that she was still in it? IDK. And, she posts things that are both about the family and not, but much more not, for sure. So, I think the whole reason that she doesn't want me on hers is so she can post on tat-boy's updates, but that is really dumb because I know about tat-boy. But, maybe she thinks it is still a secret (just shared with 300 close friends, LOL). My thinking on bringing it up in MC is that it was an open, unresolved discussion. He always first asks what went well during the week, then asks what didn't.

And yes, lots of positives, you are right.

CB


Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"