And So The End Is Near...

[Breakdown]

Intact, every time I read your sitch, you seemed to have a huge focus on your W. You seemed to really struggle to find you again, to focus on you and become who you want to be. I'm really glad you seem to be getting there.

But, now that you're getting there, you're immediately filing for D and starting to see OW? Timing seems a bit odd wouldn't you say?

I don't know what's bought me to this point. But I know I'm happy and I know I'm done. I'll always have regret as this isn't what I wanted for our Son - but it's what she wanted.

You sure you don't know? Let's look closer:

I've met someone I really like. Have to stress here that I've done nothing about it but its seriously given me something to think about.

This was massively unexpected but I can honestly say for the first time since it began I'm not worried about my sitch or consumed by what my wife is or isn't doing...

I agree...first time I've heard you not consumed about your W. You see it? Do you really get it?

I'm no longer angry towards her - I want her to be happy. Our Son will need her too be happy - so wherever her journey takes her I really hope it gives her everything she wants and needs.

This is really excellent....but have you really forgiven her? Have you really let go of the anger? Or are you just trying to convince us because you want to move on now that there's another option on the table?

My marriage broke down just a few months ago, and thanks to Divorce Busting I have learnt so much about myself.

Hasn't been very long has it? Are you really being honest with yourself? Do you see how easily that allure of someone else is when your struggling with your own sitch?

No judgement from me, so I hope you don't take it that way. You have to live with your own choices. I just hope you are really being honest with yourself and from what I'm reading, I don't think you are.