What you describe isn't "detaching". It's like a child who isn't able to get what they want. You haven't reached the mature definition of detaching. You still want her to apologize and see the error of her ways. It doesn't work that way.
I guess your right. I do good for about a week then start missing her. Just tuff because we have absolutely no reason to talk anymore.
Now a few questions. W hasn't made her car payment prob because she spent alot of money on her OM for his birthday. How do I handle this. Confront her or explain to her mom. The agreement was if she didn't pay that we were going to terminate the lease.
Also our Wedding anniversary is next week. Do I just treat it like any other day or send a message or anything?
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB