BTW, part of why I posted the FB thing is that I was mad at myself that I missed a great chance to listen and STFU (I love that, I am going to use it often...). Instead I rebutted and headed into the effect on me. STUPID!!! I would have loved to hear her answer as to why it is important to her and never did.
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
