No MrBond, she has said now that she doesn't want to D anymore and that she isn't really sure she meant it when she said it in March. She is saying last few weeks that she was "in a dark place" in March and that if we move, it is together. I am not 100% sold that is the case, but it is positive to hear and I am moving forward as if it is.
You are right, she doesn't have to, it is her choice, but either choice sends me a message whether she wants it to or not.
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"