She said she wanted this for herself and just didn't want me to be on it.
This is SOOOOO MLC...
I can empathize with you so much on that, as can others who are dealing with this. Like everything is supposed to be "normal" and yet the MLCer has some (secret) life they are trying on like a coat to... IDK... see if they'd miss the LBS... what life would be like with the LBS erased... it is so, so, so frustrating.
There is no answer except, for right now, that's what she wants. Nothing you can say or do will change that. And as frustrating as it is, just like tat-boy, you will need to learn to accept it, without taking it personal. It SEEMS personal, yet it truly is not. It's how the MLC brain seems to work. *shrug*
Keep working on yourself and yes, focus on the positives and forgive and let go of the negative.
