How are you doing today my friend? Just caught up on your updates and the trip thing is really tough. I drove myself crazy trying to figure out what W was doing, whether she was connecting with tat-boy, etc. and I know how your imagination can get away from you, especially late at night.
When my W got back, I was happy to see her and she was also on a high. Over the next several days, she would mention something and I would affirm and ask "tell me more" kinds of questions. She eventually told me a whole lot about the weekend, but I never did hear the real details on her texting tat-boy (I heard that later from her friend) and other things I was hoping for. Maybe someday, maybe not, probably doesn't matter anyway. Just hang in the there, listen, and let time work. You survived the weekend, that is a positive!
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"