I am very proud of my actions today.

had some issues with partner and estate agent yesterday, and I was steaming... I did rather take the issues out on the agent, but they were partly responsible. I told them nothing would be dealt with until I had spoken to my partner. His contact with me can only be described as limited. He did call me last night. I ignored the call. Two reasons.

1. Why should I be available to suit him

2. I was so mad. I really wanted to push his buttons and be obnoxious.

Instead I waited. He did actually ring again today, which is most unusual. Did I rant. No. I was quite calm, quiet and kept to the basic facts. I ended the chat - at which time he told me to ring his mobile (I don't but he occasionally says call me if you need me) or e-mail him at work (that's a new one).

I hope this is good DBing.