First I would like to say thank you for always responding. You have been a tremendous help.
You are absolutely right. I went dark for 27 days and decided to contact her and the contact did not go well. So since then I have been applying the LRT which I have backslided on a couple times. I am now all in on the LRT. I think I am finally mentally stable enough to not backslide.
I do not understand how the marriage went south so quick as well. To be honest I think that she was unsure about the marriage but because we were so deep into the planning process she was afraid to back out or postpone. She did state to me at one point that she "thought I would change" once we got married. so that leads me to believe she was not 100% sure she wanted it. Because my wife is truely all about the spotlight (former NFL Cheerleader) I beleive that she wanted the wedding but not the marriage. Because as soon as times got rough she bailed. And mind you she has a history of running from her problems. I am not the first relationship she has had that she treated this way.
I do believe also that there are bigger issues that she may be dealing with that are way above what I can help her with. I think you are right. I do need to remove myself from the equation so she can deal with her demons just like I am dealing with mine to be a better person.
Rick, Yes we do both have our own attorneys. I will let them discuss from this point forward. Thank you for the input as well
Me 33 W 32 Married 10/13/12 WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13 Divorce filed 2/13/13 Seperated 3/1/13 till ????????? Divorced 5/28/13
