I have not posted any of my story here just reading a lot it helps my heart to feel better and looking for some hope my H left the first time in Nov. 2012 for a few weeks and came back then he left again In Feb 2013. The first time I tried to ask him why and he did not have a answer for me this time he told me he want to be to be in control, If he picks one type of floor and it is cheaper and I see another type of floor that cost more I want that, and I get it meaning I would also pay for it. I’ve been thinking about that, then he told me that he was not sure if he could take care of me in the manor I’ve been taking care of myself, and this open my eyes. I think he feels he cannot live up to my stands, and please chime in your thoughts please, I’m a very successful W but I’m a in your face W, My H is very successful in his own right but I don’t think he sees it . But I’m a doer if we want to do something or we need something I take care of it I did not think it was a problem in the beginning but I guest it is I’ve since pulled back and I’m not doing anything, I’ve really stop talking to him about 1.5 months ago but Sunday night he came to the house and he told me he loved me more then I could even know, and that he did not want a D, I did not ask any questions just listen to him, we talk about little thing what he was up to and what I’ve been up and that was it, Then on Monday, it was back to I’m in my world and he is in his. I not sure what I should do ok not do at this point.
Me:50 H: 40 K: 4 Mine from first M 3 away at school M: 8 yrs S: Feb 2013
