I really wanted to do the same to write a letter then discuss it afterwords. I am taking the advise I read on here and be lovingly silent. Im sure they know your intentions and how you feel about them.

I just moved out and took the bare necessities. Im going minimal mode.

H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.