A Feral Cat, Puzzling

[reachingHigher]

Oh, T^2!

No 2X4's from me!

I'm so sorry about this new and painful revelation!

I too clearly remember the back-and-forth thing from last fall! H's continued insistence upon D (signing over cars, having documents drawn, financial accounts....everything...except...the actual signature on the paper). All the while courting me....wanting physical contact, dates, time together, etc.

How can it be more confusing? It is easier looking back now...but at that time I didn't know we weren't going through with it. I suspected it could be the case (and you were there each step of the way, helping me with my sanity) but I still didn't KNOW.

And then there was the tiny statement a week before D....I'm not signing the papers just yet. Need to put it off a little bit.

~ ~ ~ ~ ~

T^2, you're a strong, kind, integrated, changed man. You can do this. You know how to detach. You are no stranger to internal pain and empathy for others, including your own children. You can do this, no matter what the outcome.

You didn't break her, T^2. You can't fix her. You know the routine. But it's true!!! You were put in her life for a reason. For her. For you.

But right now, take care of yourself. You need that. You've got to have strength for these days ahead. Post here as much as you need.

We all love you and you have helped and been an inspiration for so many here. Especially me.

Hugs,
rH