Thank you soo much for reminding me of this little powerful sentence, as soon as I read it I realized I had forgot to sit still. I was grounded again!
Nero....
yes, sitting still is sometimes all I have and most of the time it is the best choice. My answers have been coming to me, and those are the ones you don't have to question because of how simple the truth can be when it reveals it's self!
Yes, he is taking his own blame, and even understands there will one day be consequences, but his backward brain doesn't grasp the whole pic, he's just not mature or healthy enough!
I am surprised, relieved, thankful, and even scared about how ok I am these days about my M, R, and the simple truth that it is probably over. I know what I want, I'm not going to spend my days " trying" to squeeze it out of someone, I want their L to flow naturally from who they are as a person. Like I've always said, I love men, I think they are great company, they are easy going, usually easy to please, and don't get caught up on things.
Why wouldn't I sit still while in this sitch, everything going on around me about H is yuck, I don't want to be a part of it! I have 3 adult sons who still live here, now... they are awesome, handsome, strong minded men, and the smell good too!
Have a great day all, I have been getting better at doing for myself, and reaching out to talk to people, time to find me, now where did she go again.....
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!