No, the idea was that eventually I'm going to meet the guy. To avoid a scene, I thought we could make that a time when it was just me and him. I have thought about meeting him with a baseball bat, and that is why I would want to do this, to get rid of crazy thoughts like that. I would plan on keeping it short and not to the point. I don't think that this guy is my problem. He's being selfish and acting badly, but he's just a stranger to me. I wasn't planning on saying anything like that to him, just mention the weather and sports. I don't want to be his friend, but I don't want to be enemies, and I definitely don't want to slink around trying to avoid him any more. But fine, bad idea. I won't do it. That's what this forum is for.
