All I said was "I miss U H :(", but I know that has probably set me back. Needless to say I've there has been no reply, nothing!!...
That's OK, we all backslide now and then. But remember that reaction (or lack of a reaction) and if you're ever tempted to send a similar message just remember how flat this one fell.
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I'm see myself as an old pair of shoes, that are comfortable and know that they fit well, which have been shoved into the back of the wardrobe as you don't quite want to throw them out.
I see the OW as the bright shiny new pair of shoes that have taken the place of the old ones. You wear them, think they look nice but the longer they are on you feet you find they are not as comfortable as you first thought. You then find they cause blisters and make your feet hurt. You then realize that you would much prefer to be wearing those old comfy ones after all.... We shall see??
You're not an old pair of shoes. You need to do things for yourself that remind you that you too are a shiny pair of new shoes. Go get your hair done. Start tanning. Whiten your teeth. Spruce up your wardrobe. Lose a few pounds if you need to. Exercise. Change your perfume. Go out dancing. Get that image of "old comfy shoes" out of your head. There's a story in DR of a woman who did all this and suddenly her WAH was drawn like a magnet back to her. I'm sure he saw her as those old shoes, but once he left her, she remade herself and started drawing the attention of men again, and suddenly he realized SHE was the new pair of shiny shoes.
