Hi Portia, D.Marie and KML (and all you lurkers out there wink )

Am I having more fun as a blonde?

Not yet. Been extremely busy.
Work (wonderfuljob) has kept me hopping, and H had hernia surgery Friday, and S16 has had track qualifiers and meets.

Not sure if I'm amused or bemused about H. Truly think I'm getting more and more annoyed with him each passing day. Oh, and we had a bit of a blow up too. It was Saturday evening, H handed me a paper and said to call the number because the surgery nurse told him that number was to a 24 hour nurse line. I looked at the paper and said I didn't think that was right, that the paper said it was regarding workers comp coverages. H, angry voice, just call the number!! So I call, and got a recording talking about different states' coverages etc. I put it on speaker so H could hear as well. And you know, he just doesn't like being wrong at all, so he called me a b!tch. And you know, I just don't like being called a b!tch so I left the room.

Aha! Distance! Aha! Pursuit! H drags his post surgery carcass upstairs to tell me "this is what he doesn't like about me" and so forth and so on. Worst part, S16 overhears.

And S16 is NOT happy about what he hears. And lets H know. And H plays it off as a joke, as "we're just talking, that's what married people do, don't read anything into it."

frown Poor boy. I felt soooo bad for him.

And more words the next morning (all the kids were out of the house)

Mostly just a rehash of other "talking" times. Things of interest.

1. H apologized. He apologized for calling me a b!tch and he apologized for the argument in general. (IDK what this is about, H doesn't normally do apologies. Well, when you're "king" you don't have to I guess. "King" would be H's nickname for himself.)

2. One of the phrases S16 overheard was from me, "if our marriage is over...." H says he thought it was odd S16 didn't emphasize on "the positive" of that. I had to ask what the positive of that was. Apparently it was the word "if".

H still seems firmly of the opinion that it ain't over til he says its over. Says the "bomb" is history, can't I just get over it, what's wrong with me, why am I so emotional, why can't I be logical like him.

And then he left for the casino. He's due back today. Yay.

D.Marie ~ seems like you have a doozy in your H too. He sounds very frustrated with himself, and I know how hard that is to live with.

KML, I asked H to speak to the dr. about T levels back at bomb drop but it was a no go.

Oh, and one more thing that made me spitefully chuckle. H, after some of our "talking" showed me his phone texts with OW. She was being oh so concerned for H's hernia blah blah blah and then she mentioned that she too was having health issues. H didn't respond to that in the following text, so she brought it back up with "I can hardly breathe and barely see" H's texts still paid no attention to this subject. So I asked him what was wrong with her.

HE SAID HE DIDN'T KNOW HE HAD NEVER ASKED HER!!!

ROFLMAO!! The love of his life is gasping for her very breath and H doesn't even express any interest! Lol!
Welcome to my world, b!tch! wink

.... hey, maybe I am having more fun!! smile

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.