A New Beginning - after 2 years...

[Maritimer]

I can relate to your H feelings about the children. I wanted 50/50 custody but experts say it is not in the best interest for the kids. Most fathers want to see there kids as much as they can and when someone tells you that's not healthy for them it gets frustrating.

Not seeing your children frequently and loosing half your paycheck is a tough pill to swallow. Depending on how he expresses his frustrations it could be focused on you.

I have thoughts that my W is not wanting to give me more custody because she loves to be in control. I will always have to play by her rules. It takes time to accept this.