I believe you can and you should DB through this but I also believe you should always be DB'ing.
DB'ing is for you KG. Its for you to live your life as you wish and to present yourself to the world as you wish to.
This is what I believe most. Of course i started out like all, using DB as a method to repair my marriage. It repaired me.
KG: I knew you had the answer in you lol! You just had word and thought soup going on in your head. Sometimes difficult to strain what you want out!
Protect yourself and your kids, sorry H doesn't see the value in what you say regarding custody. Most likely a money thing for him, no?
I understand all the feelings you have and how you feel you cannot trust H with the financial aspect. When someone who has grown as much as you have in the journey still cannot trust, don't you think there is a good reason? I do. Let the lawyers deal... ((()))
