Thank you Maritimer. To be honest I feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off my shoulders.
The more I thought about it the clearer it became. I like the person I have become through this journey - and the truth is I don't like the person my Wife has become. I knew I would never be able to respect her again as far as our marriage was concerned.
After realising all of that, it was a very simple decision.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013