Thank you Maritimer. To be honest I feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off my shoulders.

The more I thought about it the clearer it became. I like the person I have become through this journey - and the truth is I don't like the person my Wife has become. I knew I would never be able to respect her again as far as our marriage was concerned.

After realising all of that, it was a very simple decision.


W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013