I am so happy to read your update and all I can say is - You've made it!
Regardless of what happens to your M, you've made it... You've found and reconnected with Tallula and you won't let her go ever again.
(((((Tallula))))))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D