Divorced-not done-But wondering ?

[JJAC2005]

A toss up question....
With the successful reply from a well planned out Mothers Day and Birth Day gesture a little over a week ago from my ex.
Would it be considered pushing or pursuing if I did another gesture this close to that one.
I am experiencing a huge bounty of blooms from all of the Lilacs I have around the property and I was always known for filling the house up with their beauty and fragrance this time of year since the time we first met.
I have the biggest urge to place a bunch of these fresh cut flowers on her front porch today, so that she might enjoy them as she once did...
I want to in my heart....However this would trigger another memory, hopefully a good one. But my biggest hope is I feel that she should be thinking of me and missing me on her own.