I try not to be dwelling on my mistakes, I seem to be making a few!!
And yes my thread title I now realize is a little confusing. I did mean H told me that "there is this chemistry between him and the OW" and that he's not "in love" with me anymore, but "cares for me deeply".
M:47 H:46 T:8.5yrs SD:19 May/2012 ?? H having EA Dec/2010 H distant Jan/10/2013 Confirms PA with OW for 1 month March/24/2013 OW still in the pic M:Moved out May 4th