I keep saying to myself, we teach people how they can treat us, so demand respect!
He spinning again, he wants company in that, I'm not playing!
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Originally Posted By: I.am.Dmarie
What does it mean when a man spends an hour spewing, not blaming you, but hating life, telling you he's not going to change, ending the conversation w/I'm moving out and then in the middle of the night, smells your hair wraps his arms around you and pulls your back close to him? Maybe men know what goes through a man's mind?
In the morning he said he was spewing anger and was trying to get his phone to block her calls the last few days. HUH! He said I (me) did nothing wrong, and left angry.
Dawn, you know there is no logic to his thoughts right now. Don't drive yourself nuts trying to make sense out of it!
At least he realizes the problems are his own, no longer blaming them on you. I think that is progress.
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I don't think he realizes he held me...maybe! I'm reeling...not for him, but for answers for me, my next step!
Sit quietly and the answers will come. (stolen from someone much wiser than me!)
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
