we own a business - pt 9 ... its about me!

[makingmagic]

I think I am understandig about bait, and pursuit/distance:

I hadn't heard from h since Friday night (work update message), to which I didn't feel the need to reply.

Today (holiday monday), I had to message him re: work/bidding. Took over an hour or two for him to reply, which I was surprized because normally he is on top of work scenario's that have time restrictions. I told him I thought we were going to discuss this purchase. He didn't reply. We didn't purchase/bid (very shocked!!).

Moments ago, h texted to let me know a work situation that he was pleased about, and ended with a smiley face. I didn't reply.

Then antoher message to let me know my tv show was on in 5 more mins. I didn't reply.

Mayybe I am mindreading/maybe not....(just trying to understand):


I am not getting baited into a "work" convo or message back on a holiday monday, when it wasn't important (to him) earlier in the day when we should have been bidding. Secondly, H texting me to tell me about my tv show, feels like he is "temp checking" to see if I am "still here/still available"... I don't feel the need to reply.

I feel If I reply, then he feels I am still "here" ready to play distance/pursuit. I am not. I am dim/distancing & "letting go"

Right?