Great question! We have some, and enough differences to pique each others interests in learning about each other that is fascinating....Backgrounds etc. She is ladylike ( I dont mean that in a sexist sense, just thatbshe carries herself well and takes care of herself in a very feminine way). She is driven yet has sensitivity and conscience. She is extremely intelligent in a conceptually way. We can have intellectual converstations that I am not used to and miss. That is not to knock my ex, she is smart in other ways, just not in depth. This lady is very quick witted and has a great laugh...I guess I have tickled hoer funny bone which also tells myself that I am getting back to my old self again. She appreciates me as a good man and father. She likes art and literature and poetry and lyrics that are thought provoking. She loves film....and not movies. She appreciates more thought provoking films and not just slapstick or 'chick flicks' as she says. I am a Christian....Roman Catholic and she appreciates my faith and wants to know more about it. She is Persian and Muslim, very modernized and I appreciate her Persian and historical culture. I am familiar with it. I love my Canadian history of 7 generations and she is fascinated with learning more about that. She likes the outdoors, lakes, cottages, etc. I like to fish and she wants to learn. She likes bike riding and wants to do lots with me. She loves my dog. I know that is a lot and there is more. I still need to take it slow and perhaps over time date some more people but I have my babies to look after and life changes to incorporate and deal with the litigation at hand. She knows all this and have been honest about it. She has her things to deal with too.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.