BANG! Bomb Drop Number Two

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FY You are right. I need to see these moments as times where i can connect with W and communicate more. I've not had many chances so far to show her that i appreciate all she does, and also boost her self esteem a little, tell her how good she is at things.

This is a dangerous time for me, its so easy to be relaxed and sit back. I need to focus on me, focus on my 180's and changes, and also focus on how I can show W I can do those things she accused me of lacking in our R. (minus the physical affection of course).

At the end of the day I need to realise I am lucky. My W is still here in the house, and being nice to me. Yes, it may be because she is buzzing from having OM, but at the same time it gives our R chance to blossom a little. I am under no illusions, if she is still in love with OM, I know she can not feel love for me, but as you say FY, if i am a rock, and H she would be a fool to leave - if she is able to find love for me again, I will be there and looking my best!!