Backsliding Well asked the H if he knows what he is doing yet. Also said I go day to day week to week putting my best foot forward. I later went on to ask if we could communicate with S19. Since S19 lives with me and home from 1st year college, I want to be clear on my expectations. H asked What happened? Well nothing, but I don't want there to be any confusion re drinking, curfew, spending, parties,... H gives usual response ok. I have to take the lead on parenting. Can't 180 that. Up to H there would be no discipline, no consequences. Why should there be??
H gets back in town tonight(been gone 8days.) I have his car. Either I or s 19 will have to pick him up from airport. he has not called S19 all week. I am still mad a bitter, Can you tell??
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
