A plan of action...vet advice needed

[SFC_Swede]

adinva...I am not sure if this will make you laugh, or become mad at me. But while she was laying out the "rules" of me continuing to live here, I asked her about any possible "benefits". She told me no, and that the "switch was off". I deserved it, because instead of juse backing off and shutting up....I asked why. Thats when she made the disgusted statement...and thats because everytime she looks at me all she can see is the chewing tobacco...and that no amount of time will change that, and she doesnt believe I have or will every stop.