I can only tell you what I would do and that is to sit quietly for now. If he pulls another stunt w/the money, then I would move forward. You do not need to be going through this emotional stress every month just because he wants to pull your chain and control how you live.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
