Snodderly, you are absolutely right. Financial aspects...good question. I probably should have mentioned.
H agreed that it is best to keep giving me money as agreed until "everything" was final. In fact, he gave me all money he owed me on Wednesday, which he told me he was going to do the day of the conversation but with us spending fours hours talking, the bank was closed by the time we were done. He also gave more money Thursday as well.
Funny thing is, my deadline was Thursday as I took off to go to the court house to file, and he did it the day before. (he did not know any of this, of course.)
So, at this time, I want to wait a little longer on pursuing any support orders as the attorney said not to unless H gives me ZERO. I am not saying I won't need to or I believe H, but I feel I will know when it is the right time, and it is not quite yet.
So does this change your view on anything? Right now I am leaning to the sit quietly until H ask me...
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life